Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Seminar is Finished

We finished our two-day adoption seminar today.  Today's information centered on legal issues in adoption, which was beneficial to us since Texas laws are different than South Dakota adoption laws.  We learned that, based on laws, Texas is an adoption-friendly state.  We also spent some time discussing "matching," which occurs when a birth family chooses us to raise the child.  They told us about placement and how to relate to the birth family after placement (when baby comes into our home).  They showed us how to put together our profile page, which is placed in "the book" which birth families will be choosing from.  Lastly, we were able to hear from a Buckner family who adopted a couple years ago and are now going through their second adoption.  We were encouraged to hear that they have encountered many of the challenges we have faced. 

On our way home we spoke with our case worker.  She told us that we just needed to get our fingerprints, then home study, which should be completed in the next couple of weeks.  Once the home study is done, we will be a waiting family!  The home study is our last step before we start waiting.  We are still raising funds and are so grateful for those who have supported us prayerfully and financially.  We still need about $6000 to reach our goal.  We may need this in eight weeks or eight months.  Regardless, these funds are due at placement.  It's hard to say when that is, but there is no doubt that things are progressing nicely.  

Thanks for praying,

Jeremiah, Amanda, and Hesedah

Monday, April 28, 2014

Hanging Out at Buckner



Today we attended the first of two seminars for adoption at the Buckner office in Longview.  You may remember that we also had our orientation meeting in Longview about two months ago.  We met some great couples back then...and all of them were there today.  We enjoyed reconnecting with them and seeing where they are in the process.

Today's seminar was primarily about attachment of the child, bonding with the baby, and having a sense of entitlement to parent the child.  These are common issues in adoption.  For many adoptive parents, there is a lack of the sense to entitlement to raise a child born by someone else.  We also discussed the losses experienced by the birth family, the baby, and the adoptive parents.  

Some of this is review, but very much needed.  The good news from this meeting is that Buckner currently has no families in the "book."  This means that those in our class are the only potential adoptive parents through Buckner in Texas. 

Thanks for praying,

Jeremiah, Amanda, and Hesedah

Monday, April 21, 2014

Adoption Seminar

One week from today we will be in Longview for a two-day adoption seminar.  This means two things: (1) our adoption paperwork is complete; (2) we are that much closer to becoming a waiting family.  We are excited to be at this point.  It's a long process, but so worth the wait.  The only thing left to do after we complete the seminar next week is our home study.  We expect that all will be completed by the end of May and that we will become a waiting family shortly after that. 

On another note, Sedah is very excited to become a big sister.  We've asked her if she wants a baby brother or sister, but her answer changes every time.  We have noticed lately how much she loves to see babies, so we anticipate that she will be a big help when our newest little one comes home.

  • Please keep the seminar in your prayers.  
  • Please pray for the birthmother who is making some difficult decisions right now.  
  • Pray for the child(ren) out there who need homes.
  • Pray for us as we continue down this road of adoption.  WE ARE EXCITED!!!

Thanks for praying,

Jeremiah, Amanda, and Hesedah